Kids ex husbands dating
Dating your ex can be a positive thing or a nightmare.
In fact post-divorce "healthy" boundaries that allow one to get on with life and independently explore other "worlds" are often what was missing in the marriage and contributed to its demise.
Since our divorce, I don’t care that he had a mistress, since the feeling that he still wants me so much gives me comfort and I feel secure with him. I have tried to date another man, but I couldn’t see the same stability with him.
I know I don’t have stability with my ex-husband right now either.
The preposterous proposition is that the sweetheart who became the source of such pain and disappointment still has many of the endearing qualities that brought you together in the first place.
And hopefully both of you have grown significantly since the divorce, perhaps enough to consider dating again.